Things To Know About Abused Cats
Cats that have been abused can appear severely maimed and
damaged all over their exterior. Some may appear to be in
perfect shape on the outside, although all of the damage they
sustained may be internal or emotional. Even though physical
damage is bad, emotional damage is much tougher to fix. Cats
who have physical abuse will still answer to a soft touch and
soft voice, as long as they know that the abuse has come to an
end.
When you have a cat that has been emotionally abused, you'll
need to wait until the cat comes to you. You'll need to use
patience, as the cat will be confused and not know if you plan
to hurt him or not. If you take your time and let him know that
you are nothing to fear, he will eventually come to you. When
he starts to come to you, you can let him sniff you and pet
him. After a while, he will learn that he can trust you and he
will come to you when you call him.
Yelling, raising your voice, or using disciplinary tools
such as flyswatters or water guns the wrong way can lead to
emotional damage. If you continue to use the wrong means of
discipline on an emotionally damaged cat, the cat can become
mean or lethargic. When a cat turns mean, it's not always a bad
thing. Meaner cats are easier to reach, as they still care a
bit about what happens to them – while lethargic cats could
really care less.
Cats that have become lethargic won't play, take treats, or
respond to anything you say to them. With a lethargic cat, the
ideal way to get him to respond is to bring in a companion cat.
Over time, a lethargic cat will eventually look for attention,
normally a scratch or a pat. When this happens, you should
always use a soft voice and snuggle with him. Never raise your
voice at this point, and make sure you let the cat know that
his behavior is a lot better.
You should make slow movements around a lethargic cat, as he
is still quite traumatic. Once he is coming around and letting
you touch him again, he is getting back to his normal self.
Keep in mind that it may take some time, which is to be
expected with this type of situation. If your cat starts to get
upset again or if you raise your voice, he will hide again. If
you continue to use a soft voice and have patience, your cat
will eventually get past this. If you get a cat that is
lethargic, you should prepare yourself for a long and very
intensive healing period.
Angry or mean cats on the other hand, will either fight and
scratch with you, or simply run away from you. With mean cats,
the best thing to do is use gentle treatment with a soft voice.
You can never try to raise your voice or use strict discipline,
as it will only make the cat meaner. Never attempt to trap the
cat either, as trapping it will only make the cat react. If you
take your time and let the cat know that you are there for him,
he will eventually calm down.
Abused cats are truly a sad thing, although they are out
there. Abused cats can be a sad thing to see indeed, especially
those that were physically abused. Abused cats need a loving
home and a loving owner who will give them the type of
lifestyle they deserve. Always remember that if you are dealing
with an abused cat – you should always be as gentle as you
possibly can.
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